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Justice for Ron Mexico? July 29, 2007

Filed under: Braves & Falcons, Politics — Ally @ 8:54 pm

Ugh. That about encapsulates my feelings for Michael Vick. I am no fan, never have been. Quite frankly, I think he’s a low talent, classless, narcissistic, ass-clown. His years of continually embarrassing, bullshit, behavior eroded any respect I ever had for him as a player and especially as a man. The latest allegations of dog-fighting made me angry. After reading the 18 page indictment, I am sickened and horrified to say the least. Only a demented psycho could do what the Feds say he did.

That being said, I absolutely do not believe he should be suspended by the NFL.

Before you start sending me hate mail, let me explain.

I grew up around some brilliant legal minds. My uncle Bob, for instance, was a Solicitor and a US Congressman from the great state of South Carolina for 16 years. He was also one of the most intelligent & compassionate men I’ve ever known. To this day, he is still the man I admire most. He loved his country and believed that our judicial system was bar none the best in the world. He always encouraged me to have faith in the wisdom of our legal process, even though it is sometimes flawed. He taught me that without question, the greatest tenet is our constitutional right to a fair trial in which a defendant is presumed innocent until proven guilty. The prosecution always has the burden of proof. Contrary to what the media tries often to sell, an indictment or grand jury verdict is not a result of due process or an equitable hearing. It only serves to show probable cause; probable being the operative word. Yet, somehow I’ve increasingly noticed how quick the American public leaps to judgment based on little fact and a singular point of view. Have we already forgotten about the Duke non-rape case?

To say what happened to Reade Seligmann, Collin Finnerty, and David Evans was a gross rush to judgment is the understatement of the century. These boys were vilified by many Americans who ignorantly bought into the vicious deceptions of a contemptible DA. At a minimum, they were branded rapists and taunted with death threats all because some people chose to believe in their guilt before the court’s ruling. Even their university, professors, fellow students, and community cast their lot with a power-hungry, devious, son-of-a bitch with his own sick agenda to advance. I realize this is an extreme example to present, but nonetheless valid. Just as the Duke Lacrosse players deserved the assumption of innocence, Michael Vick does as well.

Do I think he will be proven guilty in a court of law? You bet. Here’s why:

  1. The Federal government, from statistics as late as 2005, has a conviction rate of 94.1%. That is unfathomable & phenomenal to me.
  2. Michael Vick’s case is being prosecuted in the US District Court in Richmond, Virginia - this court is famously referred to as the “rocket docket”. There will be no lengthy delays in heading to trial - I can assure you. In fact, his trial date is already set for early November.
  3. He will be facing a notorious hard-nosed, no-nonsense, jurist in US District Judge Henry Hudson. He’s known for denying defense motions and rejecting delays. More than 80% of his cases are heard within 4 months. Again, unfathomable.
  4.  Tony Taylor (not the Dawg we all know & love), the man who started this whole case & the first defendant, will be in court tomorrow morning to presumably turn state’s evidence. Then it’s only a matter of time before the other 3 follow suit & turn against Michael.

This all leads me back to my original statement… I do not believe Michael Vick should be suspended by the NFL. I absolutely think it is a colossal mistake to condemn a person without due process. Michael Vick deserves a fair trial and his day in court. How is he to receive that when the NFL has essentially decided to advance the course of judgment outside of the law? As it stands now, Vick has been ordered to stay away from training camp until the NFL can “complete their own review of the case.” That’s incredibly suspect. In adherence with Commissioner Goodell’s ruling, Falcons owner Arthur Blank backed off his planned 4 game suspension and publicly agreed with the NFL’s stance on the situation. Not surprising. It should also be noted that the NFL is completely within their right to discipline a player even before a conviction, according to the collective bargaining agreement. Just ask Pac-Man Jones.

Deion Sanders recently penned an interesting take on this situation in his column with The Fort Myers News-Press. No surprise that his position may be a little outrageous for some, but he does raise some interesting points. Such as, what a dog means to Vick may be different than what it means to you or me. He talks about the status symbol in dog fighting - owning the biggest, baddest dog around. The most intriguing point he raises is about the importance level of this issue as compared to the murder of a human.

“Can I pause for a moment to ask you a question? Who shot Darrant Williams? Remember the Denver Bronco cornerback? I’m just more concerned about bringing to justice someone who killed a human. Or finding out who broke into Miami Heat forward Antoine Walker’s home, tied him up and robbed him at gunpoint. We should have the same passion for man that we have for man’s best friend.”

I’m not saying Deion is right, but he does add another dimension to the story. <<btw, if you didn’t click the link to read it, you should.>> Above all, he implores us to allow Michael Vick the same rights afforded you and me, to gain some perspective on the situation, and to let the legal process play out. Amen to that!

The bottom line is, I don’t know what’s the right thing to do with Michael Vick while he prepares for his trial. The NFL, the Falcons, Nike, etc. all have a brand and image to protect. This is not just about American justice; it’s about business. I get that. I simply submit that the protection of an individual’s personal freedom is more important than public pressure or marketing. I also submit that we are a better nation, a better society, when we cease to convict a man before he’s prosecuted.

Agree? Disagree? Tell me what you think! Let me have it in the comments section; I can take it.

 

Matt Stafford’s Gimme 5 July 29, 2007

Filed under: Go Dawgs! — Ally @ 7:10 pm

I just saw this on the ajc and died laughing. I thought the article was about his top 5 dream crushes, since a large pic of Jessica Simpson was the grabtag. Clearly, I was mistaken - its his top 5 dream golf mates. The only girl to make the cut is the aforementioned Daisy Duke. Hopefully this is the clean version for print or I’m gonna seriously start worrying about this kid.

Here it is….

Georgia quarterback Matthew Stafford gives us the folks he’d recruit for his dream golf foursome:

1. Tiger Woods. He’d have to give me about 10 strokes a side.

2. UGA quarterback coach Mike Bobo and his kids. I’m just kidding, but I probably should say that.

3. Jessica Simpson. I would teach her to play. She’s not too old for me, is she? She lives 15 minutes away from me in Texas.

4. John Elway. He’d probably kill me.

5. Will Ferrell. He’s hilarious.

Seriously, I hope to God Matt has a girlfriend.

 

Who are you crushing? July 17, 2007

Filed under: Faith, Life, Love — Ally @ 7:03 pm

If you know me at all, you know that I am a huge Friends fan. Andrea and I lived for Thursday nights in college - we always hosted “Must See TV Night” & then would hit downtown with everybody. The extent of my Friends trivia knowledge is unparalled by most. A fact that I am both proud of & embarrassed by at the same time.

A good friend and I were talking the other night about a topic from one of my favorite Friends episodes… the one where Ross & Rachel make up their own fantasy lists of 5 celebrities they can hook-up with. I’ll let him tell you who made his cut. Until then, here’s my list, and yes it is laminated:

1. Harry Connick jr. - the hair, the lips, the dimples, the voice
2. John Cusack - Say Anything, High Fidelity, Serendipity - just to name a few
3. Jack Black - nothing sexier than a man that can make me laugh
4. Josh Holloway - hella bonus points for being a Dawg
5. Clive Owen - seriously, no explanation needed

John Cusack
“She’s gone. I gave her my heart, she gave me a pen.”

Before you tell me who’s on your list, check out these articles I came across the other day. It takes a look at the psychology behind your celeb crushes. Meaning, it reveals a little about the love you really want to find. This one is for the guys and this one is for the ladies.

If you know me, then it will take you all of 5 seconds to peg which crush fits me best: that’s right… The sweet, sensitive guy (aka Lloyd Dobler in Say Anything).  I won’t tell you which category I think I fit in from the guys’ list though ;-) Definitely curious to read what you think!
 

 

Brazil - Adventure for the Senses July 12, 2007

Filed under: Ally stuff, Faith, Life, Love — Ally @ 8:18 pm

No joke - the above title is the motto of Brazil. Believe me, the sentiment is apropos! I’ve traveled to more than 25 countries since 1999, but Brazil was never one of them. That is until yesterday….

I’ll start from the beginning. During a previous late night conversation with a certain someone, who shall remain nameless, I was asked if I would ever consider joining the legions of ladies who now frequent “the Brazil.” I was not asked to purchase a ticket, per se, but was cajoled into believing that I would really like the scenery.

Well the next night, after heavy wine indulgences, Andrea & I decided that we were the adventurous types & up for the challenge. Our trip to “the Brazil” (and I do mean the FULL Brazil) was yesterday. The accomodations were lovely, but the trip itself was horrifying, excruciating, and humiliatingly hysterical nonetheless. We were told that we might experience a “little discomfort.” That has to be the biggest lie of the century! A “little discomfort” is what I feel when I have a tummy ache. This pain can only be compared to being scalped or giving birth to twins at the same time! I kid you not. If you think I’m exagerating, please by all means, try it yourself. ;-)

We were poked, prodded, pulled, ripped, and made to contort our bodies in ungodly positions all while trying to keep our composure & remain lucid.  I swear to you, I began hallucinating about the afterlife when we hit the 30 minute mark! 

After an hour & 20 minutes (no shit!) we were “braziled.” <Insert hallelujah chorus here>

Once Andrea & I regained our faculties, we waddled our way down to Latitude for some serious alcohol therapy (thank you Jesus) with our not-so-brave bffs, Leah & Christina. Cowards. Unfortunately, someone neglected to tell us that sitting down would not be in our best interest. Mercifully, the aforementioned cowardly bffs kept a steady flow of limoncello shots, gin & tonics, and laughter coming in the hopes of numbing our pain.

Thankfully, I can say that Andrea and I are feelin’ fine today, but the mere thought of having to go back for a repeat performance in 13 days makes me want to hang myself. No seriously, I am glad that I visited “the Brazil” - the view from day two is most definitely a whole different beach!

 

Help Wanted July 11, 2007

Filed under: Blog Business — Ally @ 1:38 pm

Okay, so I’m starting to get into this whole blog thing, but there is so much technical stuff I don’t understand. I really want this to look better, more organized (insert ”duh” here), and more user-friendly. Truthfully, I just want it to look like I know what the hell I’m doing.

To accomplish that, I need help. Y’all know that I am not the most creative person on the planet. So, I’m appealing to my more creative friends for some assistance in coming up with a much less lame title.

I’ve been begging a particular creative genius in my life for help & I’m desperately hoping that he hasn’t already forgotten about my request. <Isn’t he cute!> Seriously, if you aren’t reading his blog, you’re missing out. He’s wicked smart, insanely funny, an amazing writer, and his Dawg coverage is always stellar. 

Anyways, said creative genius encouraged me to figure out my point of view for this blog in order to capture the best title. To that end, I’ve pretty much decided that I want to write about whatever is on my mind when I decide to pen a post. I envision that my posts will include topics ranging from politics, issues, faith, my life (or lack thereof) to, of course, my beloved Dawgs. Hopefully a sexy love-life will creep into the mix as well.

So my friends, think of me & help me out. Post your ideas in the comments section. The winner gets a cocktail or a kiss… your choice.  ;-)

 

Endings July 9, 2007

Filed under: Faith, Life, Love — Ally @ 8:07 pm

I’m a girlie girl. It goes without saying I like happy endings. In movies, tv dramas, books, etc. nothing is better than a happy ending. I value those so much because real life is anything but a happy ending so much of the time.

A few days ago a friend dropped by to tell me that she & her husband are separating. It hit me like a ton of bricks & literally made me sick. My God, I witnessed their courtship & was in their wedding. Honestly, I NEVER would have thought these two would fall into that “more than 50%” category. That truly scares the hell out of me. I mean, if they couldn’t make it who can?

My parents are divorced, the parents of my best friends are divorced. Seems like everyone I know is touched by divorce in some way or another. I hate it & I don’t understand it - never will.

I just wonder whatever happened to the word commitment. Did it escape our vocabulary? Do we not understsand its meaning? Or have we become so self-absorbed that we no longer grasp the ethos of marriage, one flesh?  

To me, marriage isn’t just about love. Marriage isn’t just about growing together. Marriage isn’t just about happy times. Not even close.

I had the privilege recently to attend the 40th anniversary party of Bill’s parents. As the party dwindled, we congregated outside and someone asked the typical question… “what is your secret for making it 40 years together?” Bill’s mom immediately laughed & said the secret is staying in love. Bill’s dad then countered with an answer of wisdom that will stay with me for the rest of my life. He said that the secret to their marriage had nothing to do with love, but everything to do with commitment. He very candidly told us that if love was the secret he would’ve been gone long ago. Don’t get me wrong, he adores his wife. Its just that, as he put it, there are many tough times in a marriage where love doesn’t even begin to cover the pain & hurt. <At this point he had our complete attention.> He said that what got them to 40 years was simply commitment. They made a commitment before God to love, honor, and cherish - but above all they made a commitment to each other.

I’ve thought about the words from Bill’s dad for weeks now. I can’t recall a single piece of advice that spoke to my heart in such a profound way. Mr. H, I hope you know how grateful I am to know & be loved like a daughter by a man like you.

I say all of this, not to judge another’s situation - far from it actually. I love this couple so much & I pray that an unhappy ending is not in their future. I say all of this because I want to pass along the most purposeful counsel I’ve ever received.

I hope its as much of a blessing to you as it is to me.  And I pray for only happy endings to all of you… and me as well.